Benjamin Wakefield

A note about my digital resignation:

I've made the decision to step away from social media and do a complete reset - both digital and real-world connections. This isn't just about unfriending people online or clearing my phone contacts; it's a conscious choice to re-evaluate all my relationships and how they've changed over time. After spending considerable time thinking this through, I realise this is about more than just the digital age - it's about what friendship means to me now.

What Changed?
Remember when we used to just send random text messages to make someone smile? A simple emoticon, no words needed, just to say "I'm thinking of you." I miss those genuine moments of connection.
The truth is, some of my closest friendships have faded into something unrecognisable. People I once spent every day with, whose presence was woven into the fabric of my life, have become strangers who occasionally like a post. That's not enough anymore.

Why This Matters
I've watched social media transform from a tool for keeping in touch into something that just reminds me of disconnection. Yes, I can see what everyone had for dinner, but I've lost the real conversations that used to fill our lives. I know everyone is busy in their own bubble - maybe I've even unknowingly drifted away from people who valued my friendship. But that's exactly why I need this change.

Starting Fresh
Instead of trying to maintain hundreds of superficial connections or categorise friendships into different digital tiers, I'm choosing to start over. This isn't about anger or blame - it's about being honest about what friendship means to me and what I want from my relationships going forward.

Moving Forward
If you're reading this and feel a genuine connection to me, my contact details are available on this site. I welcome real conversations, actual catch-ups, and meaningful exchanges. But I'm no longer interested in maintaining the illusion of friendship through likes and emoji reactions.

Final Thoughts
This might seem extreme to some, but I believe it's healthier than watching cherished relationships slowly fade into digital acquaintanceships. I'm not disappearing - I'm just choosing to be present in a different way.

Sometimes the only way forward is to start again.